Don"t Settle for Less when God wants you to have the best.

We Settle in our relationships because we are scared to be alone and lose the stability a relationship offers. Fear paralyzes people and holds them back. Many people suffer with tremendous amount of self doubt and are unable to believe they are good enough. There are always better options out there, but too many people have low self - esteem which prevents them from realizing this. It is better to be alone than it is to want to be alone.

                                                  Wendy M. Lucious

Being honest with yourself

Being Honest with yourself,

Life isn"t about how well we can numb the hurt and focus only on our survival. It"s about facing the pain, so we don"t have to live with a mask and then silently wonder who we really are.

                                                        Wendy M. Lucious

                                              

Setting Standers

                                                           Setting Your Standers

The more chances you give to someone the less respect that they will start to have for you, they will began to ignore the standers that you set, because they know another chance will always be given, they are not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you want walk away, cause they get comfortable with depending on your forgiveness.

Some people will never see your value until your present is removed from their life.

                                                       Signed
                                                  Setting Standers                Wendy M. Lucious

Finding Yourself

Self Love is the cure to self hate.No one wants to be alone and on the other side of being alone a lot of people say that you are lonely when you're alone, that's not always the case. I have found that self love is the cure for to self hate, however some people just don't know how to be alone, being alone means finding yourself especially after a divorce, passed failure relationships and many more that I can name. You are only alone Physically not Spiritually because God stated that he will never leave us nor forsake us, Hebrews 13(5). Once a person grasp that concept they are on the right path to surviving loneliness.

What was long sorted has now been found in me, I feel like I'm flying high as an eagle, Gods love has fulfilled me, no man could ever give me that kind of fulfillment, so now I'm ready to open up and share that love. God held me so tight, but yet I feel so Free.

Finding Yourself

                                                                                                                          Your every present
                                                                                                                                  Thought
                                                                                                                              is a significant
                                                                                                                              building block
                                                                                                                              in determining
                                                                                                                               the quality of
                                                                                                                                your Future.
                                                             Enlarge Your Territory
There is a direct correlation between the quality of your thoughts and the quality of your life. What you think and speaks determines who you are; it determines what you are, where you go, what you inquire, where you live, and your enviroment of your association- I can go on and on (Proverbs, 18 21) Death and life are in the power of the tongue. What you speak you will soon become like. As A man Thinketh so is he, (Proverbs 23- 7). All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct result of your own thoughts. If your life is going to change, you must think for a change. you and only you are always only one thought away from changing your life. You may not be able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.

                                                                Signed
                                                       Wendy M. Lucious
                                                         A change person

Finding Yourself

There is nothing in this earth so great or powerful, that it cant be turned around with the words you speak.

Finding Yourself

Never envy someone elses dreams, visions, plans or purpose. Because God will never give you something that someone else is suppose to have.